Brettany (a.k.a. B. T. Benedict) here. Please see the below paragraph which will let you understand who I am.

I’ve come to the conclusion that no matter how independent/grown up an individual may be (or want to be), the greatest gift in the world is to love and be loved. I truly thank God for each and every person He has placed in my life (whether they have ultimately left or stayed), bc everything happens for a reason. If I’ve learned anything in life, it is this – each and every experience that I’ve gone through has molded me to be the fearfully loving woman of God I am today.

Blessings on blessings, yall!

Philippians 4:13